I know a guy casually, but he would like to date me. He is constantly joking about needing a "sugar mama" because he has kids who are nearly college age. When a guy continually "jokes" about things, is he really deep inside serious [jokes such as wanting a 3some or this finding a sugar mama thing]? I'm finding it all a bit boorish.
Is it a turn off when a guy jokes about wanting a "sugar mama"?-Myspace pictures
When I first saw this question, I thought it was gonna be about a younger guy and I was gonna say that he was probably just joking around with you. But since he obviously is old enough to have college age kids, that kind of joke doesn't come off as totally innocent anymore. Older guys who joke like that are trying to sound cute and funny, but they most likely mean what they are joking about. And if he jokes about having a threesome, too...damn, girl I would get rid of him. There's a lot of truth in jest. I predict that he would start dating you and just start casually needing "help" aka financially and it would just snowball from there. You don't need that kind of pressure.
Is it a turn off when a guy jokes about wanting a "sugar mama"?
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Tell him instead of telling us!!!!
ditto
Sure, do it. What's the problem?
he's a gold digger
Well, don't bother to know about it. He should talk to you straight away if he really wanted it.
He is not just joking, he is serious. Guys are way more materialistic than girls. There are more guys who want sugar mama than girls wanting sugar daddy.
Think seriously as to why you want a relationship with him. Is he worth it? Rather be single, and die single, than be in a relationship that you have doubt in.
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